Wednesday, November 7, 2007

How to make your own "sexy"

I would say one of the main driving forces for today's popular ideas of sexy would have to be apathy. I believe most people work at the very least 40 hours a week and are so very tired at the end of the day that the last thing they want to do is think. This to me is a very very very sad state of affairs.

What is life for but to live? How can one live if one does not feel or think? I get it, working sucks most of the time. I understand that after working and then coming home to a house that is piled with clothes and dishes the last thing you want to think about is what it means to be sexy. So instead you have someone else tell you.

Stop it.

Let's all just take a deep breath and think for ourselves. Do not believe that sexy is all about the physical. Do not believe that there is one type of sexy woman and one type of sexy man. This world we live in thrives on diversity so why would we want to limit ourselves when it comes to feeling and thinking sexy?

Let's all work together to find our true definitions of sexy.

I would love to hear what you all have to say in terms of what influences our culture in terms of the direction and definition of sexy. Also, please send me your own definitions of sexy.

At the same time let's find it in ourselves to make sexy. Start your own new sexy trend that comes from within and has been influenced by you and your needs. Think about that and let me know what you come up with.

Thanks!
Lauren

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